I work with men who are willing and wanting to face their dangerous man that all men have inside of them. Some men have their dangerous man on a tight leash but many men do not even admit they have that kind of part inside of them. The dangerous man can come out as a proctor part, wanting to make sure their partner, friends, or family is safe.
There have been many articles written on toxic masculinity and recently articles on what healthy masculinity is. I have found working with the majority of men, that they are unaware of their own toxic masculine traits. As a privileged group it makes sense that men are unaware of how they are continuing and keeping toxic behaviors alive. Becoming aware of your own hidden unconscious processes.
I want men to feel safe reaching out, this is a full collaboration, challenging the norms, waking untamed potential, unleashing your full potential, embracing your wild authenticity.
As the loneliness epidemic in men grows and the genuine connection for relationships becomes more murky, men need support now than ever. Originally I only saw women, helping them forge the path towards freedom. Over time I realized the problems society is having is beyond trauma, relationships, capitalism, systems, men, ect. I began to realize we are all being damaged and left to be controlled under the patriarchy where we are unable to be set free to meet our authentic potential selves.
Men gathering in groups with elders to learn from especially if their childhood was less than ideal. Men with fathers who they never felt good enough for and not around for emotional support or maybe any support. Mothers who were absent or shared too much burden with her son. These boys are left trying to understand the world by looking at what is being shown to us, the media. The media views women as objects and men as competitors to that object. Leaving both groups without identity.
I work with men on becoming safe men, for themselves, and for others. There are many parts to a man and some are loving, kind, funny, strong, silent, and at times dangerous. This could be in your addictions, in the abuse you endured as a child,
I began to see men who really wanted to change, who were willing to face hard truths, take accountability for their parts, and dig into their authentic self.
EMBRACING AUTHENTIC GROWTH, navigating transformative paths, exploring genuine potential, forging new paths of transformation for what it means to have human connection as a man.