The Conscious Collective Power

“Sisters in battle,

I am shield and blade to you.

As I breathe,

Your enemies will know no sanctuary.

While I live,

Your cause is mine.”

~Amazon Woman Oath

After the Fall.. Breath. Then… Rise.

After the fall I didn’t die, I remembered who I was.

I didn’t remember the version they applauded. Not the one who held it all together with a smile and garments. Instead I remembered the one buried beneath. Who knows how long I had to hide her from the world and myself. She was wild, squirmy, inpatient, intolerance, angry, overwhelmed, tired. She was also fierce, silly, creative, she began to believe the edge of magic in this world. She was the watcher, the one who knew. She had been waiting. And when I stopped trying to fix myself, she rose.

The edge didn’t kill me, it carved me. That cold dark abyss that once felt like death became a sanctuary; it taught me how to breath in the stillness of the dark and not be afraid. It taught me to how to listen. How to rise without anyone’s permission.

For many women the, the abyss has whispered like a refuge. Not because they want to disappear but because they are exhausted from a world that demands everything and gives so little back. All the systems we are forced to fit in that never worked to begin with start to collapse in our lives. But what if that edge isn’t the end? What if it’s the place we begin again, not as caretakers, but as flame bearers.

Not to fix the world, but to remember the power of being fully, dangerously alive.

For The Woman Who is Burned Out & Imploding

I work with women who stuck in the cycle of functional freeze, feeling the weight and demands of everyone else’s needs including your own. I work with women who are stuck in bed, broken by betrayal, overwhelmed by the roles she didn’t ask for. I see you and know this wasn’t life you were born to live.

There are many paths through complex trauma. One of them begins with remembering your design, rooted in what it means to be in the feminine. Feeling safe enough to feel safe, but sovereign. The feminine flow is not a mood, it is a current. IT creates, destroys, rests, rebuilds, and remembers. You were never meant to disappear and serve everyone else. You were not meant to disappear in bed in the cocoon. This is a gentle invitation to wonder what it would be like to create space for yourself.

For The Man Who Wants To Lead Without Harm

To the man who feels like something’s off, like the roles you were taught to play don’t fit anymore. You’ve been told to lead, to provide, to perform, but no one ever showed you how to do it without cutting parts pf yourself off.

ur power, but but. re-claiming it from the inside, then we begin. The way back insist through domaine but through embodiment of your sovereign power. Done through humility, deep listening. It’s done through truth. Your strength doesn’t live in your ego. It lives in your nervous system and learning to regulate is what I help do.

Invitation

I work somatically through the body, not around it. I’m based in Fort Collins and Denver but I work with people all over the world. Sessions are 50 minutes, once or twice a week. If you live close by I work closely at Horsetooth Reservoir with people in nature. Either in person or virtually, we move slowly, with precision. We map the signals your body has been sending for years, the tightness, the shutdown, the ache you can’t names. WE notice the stories your nervous system tells when you’re afraid, when you’re angry, when youre’ tired of pretending.

This isn’t just talk. This is reclamation. This is when you’ve done tradition methods and you’re ready to reclaim who you’ve always been. Trauma lives in all of us. It’s not just what happened. It’s what didn't;t get to move. Together, we move it.

Dr. Betsy Usher is not your therapist. She doesn’t work from a script, she works from the body where your story lives.
Welcome to Adullam a place of refuge.

You come when the mask slips. When the rage starts humming. When the life you built starts cracking at the seams and you can’t fake it anymore.

Dr. Betsy is a former psychologist who left the system when it tried to medicate her wild and silence her knowing.
Now she guides women through breakdowns, burnout, betrayal and back into their bodies. Back into their voice. Back into the part of them that never needed permission in the first place.

She’s the creator of Abdullam, a rage-fueled ritual movement space for women done performing. Her work is body-based, blunt, and reverent. She doesn’t flinch when things get heavy. She walks with you into the grief, the fire, the freeze and helps you come out on the other side changed.

Betsy’s films (I Am Borderline, Voices of Warriors) went viral because she says what others won’t. She makes it safe to say the thing that’s been living in your bones for years.

Her story is marked by addiction, abuse, neurodivergence, motherhood, physical pain, and truth-telling. She doesn’t offer answers she offers a mirror. And if you’re ready to see what’s real, she’ll meet you there.

This one isn’t for everyone.
It’s for the woman who’s circling her own edge and ready to stop pretending.

Somatic Coherance Coach| Neurodivergent Visionary | Trauma Alchemist | Creator of In Her Wild

My areas of coherence

  • Trauma

  • Intimate Partner abuse (Narcissistic Abuse)

  • Childhood Trauma/Abuse

  • New Mothers with Trauma

  • Parents of Children with Trauma

  • Grief & Loss

  • Masculinity

  • Addiction

  • Drug addiction

  • Domestic Violence

  • Sexual Assault/Abuse (intimate partner, rape, incest)

  • Women going through divorce

  • Psychic, Clairvoyant, and Spiritual abilities

    I am Poly Friendly, LGBTQ Allied, Kink Allied, Sex Positive

 

This isn’t psychology,

This is coherence

If you are looking for a licensed medical or mental health practitioner, this isn’t the space. This container is for those actively deconstructing these paradigms and who are ready to meet themselves beyond.

 
 
 

I Am Borderline

I Am Borderline is a short film Written/Directed/Produced by Dr. Betsy Usher about three characters with borderline personality disorder. The film is titled off of her campaign to help break the stigma of BPD as created by Dr. Usher
who states that individuals with BPD are more than their diagnosis.

 

Contact

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Find more information on trauma on the Blog Page, or you can read all of Dr. Betsy Usher’s Quora articles here.


Email
drbetsyusher@gmail.com

Phone
(720) 338-5775